Top 5 Boudoir Session Fears – DEBUNKED!
You probably heard through the grapevine that boudoir photography is rising in popularity. you may have even glimpsed a few sneak peeks of a boudoir session on social media. Did it pique your interest? We want to feel beautiful and empowered, yet it’s natural to feel a little hesitant about revealing so much of ourselves. As stunning as the photos are, the thought of baring all for the camera makes us think twice. The comparison and doubts set in, so we brush it off and move on to something else. Maybe one day…
Does that sound like you?
But what if?
Contents
- 5 Myths about Boudoir Sessions, Debunked
- Myth #1: “I need to lose weight / get in shape first.”
- Myth #2: “I need a special reason or occasion to book a boudoir session.”
- Myth #3: “Boudoir photography is for women who feel comfortable showing skin.”
- Myth #4: “A Boudoir session has to be risqué.”
- Myth #5: “I need to know how to pose for boudoir photos.”
- A Boudoir Session that Empowers
What if you stepped out of your comfort zone and said “yes” to a boudoir session. Maybe you’re considering it as a gift for someone special, or perhaps you’re doing it for yourself! Either way, the answer is “yes!” You should absolutely go for it.
Before you start second-guessing yourself, we want to debunk a few common fears about boudoir photography. We want to encourage you to be bold. Instead, turn those self-doubts into the very reasons you should book a boudoir session. Boudoir photography does require some vulnerability but in the very best way. Being vulnerable with yourself in a safe space opens up room to grow and express yourself in new ways. You may even discover some pretty amazing things about yourself you never noticed before. At Houston Boudoir Divas, we want to help you love yourself more through boudoir photography. Above all, it’s about feeling confident and empowered.
5 Myths about Boudoir Sessions, Debunked
Myth #1: “I need to lose weight / get in shape first.”
Suppose you’re booking a boudoir session because you hit a personal fitness goal, great! Let’s do it! But that’s not the only reason to book a session, and you certainly don’t have to wait for the number on the scale to change first. Your body is pretty incredible as-is. You’ve accomplished some amazing feats in that skin you’re in. Those beautiful curves and contagious smile are what make you you, and it’s time to celebrate that no matter what stage of life you’re in—perfect imperfections and all!
Sometimes, a boudoir session even provides extra motivation to keep going. You may look at your pictures and think, “Dang! I look pretty good,” and use that as an incentive to continually invest in self-care so you feel your best self! (When you feel your best self, you look your best self!) I promise your session will lift you up, not bring you down.
Myth #2: “I need a special reason or occasion to book a boudoir session.”
Nope! Have you ever booked a manicure or massage just ‘cuz? Or have you scheduled a date night for no reason other than to spend some quality time together? This works the same way. You don’t need a special reason, someone, or occasion to invest in self-care and self-expression through photography. Do it for yourself! Do it just because. And if you have a special occasion in mind, that’s just whipped cream on top.
Myth #3: “Boudoir photography is for women who feel comfortable showing skin.”
Let me get real with you for a second: I don’t think any person feels totally comfortable undressed. Stripping down feels vulnerable…because it is. It’s normal to feel a bit awkward. BUT, our studio is a completely private and safe space to be you!
Most ladies tell me that deciding to book a session was the hardest part. Once the session starts, we always have a blast laughing and chatting away like good friends. Any nervousness fades away, and we have a great time taking beautiful images that feature YOU! And we will stick to poses and outfits you feel comfortable with.
Myth #4: “A Boudoir session has to be risqué.”
On that same note, you can go as bold or subtle as you’d like! You determine the style and outfits for your session. I’m more than happy to offer outfit guidance based on your vision. Some ladies prefer tasteful, flirty photos—maybe some pictures that hint at something but don’t fully reveal it all. Others want a bit more. It’s totally up to you!
Myth #5: “I need to know how to pose for boudoir photos.”
Posing is my expertise! You just need to bring your lovely self and your chosen outfits. If it makes you more comfortable, we can go over outfit selections, photo styles, and poses during the planning process so you know what to expect. Rest assured, you don’t have to develop your own poses during the session. I’ll guide you from beginning to end to deliver wow-factor photos you feel proud of!
A Boudoir Session that Empowers
At Houston Boudoir Divas, we provide a safe, private, and comfortable space for you to be yourself. It’s our goal to help you rediscover your beauty from the inside out through photography! We’re here to answer any questions or concerns you might have and walk you through the process. Connect with us here to get started.